This is Mary Carder’s first book. She is someone who grew up with adversity and spent most of her adult life reliving that adversity. Her faith in God allowed her to achieve most of her dreams. Now in her late 60’s, she has devoted her life to helping others. Child of an alcoholic, gay, conservative, corporate executive for 21 years and a successful business owner for over 25 years knows how to survive in the challenging world on earth. Mary Carder has learned to enjoy life under the worse circumstances by turning her life over to God, and realizing she is not in control, God is.